Get our favorite narratives and real life advice on dating online and otherwise in the LGBTQ community, from first dates to first relationships.
Why PDA Means So Much To Me As A Queer Woman
Visibility is a privilege.
A Straight Guy’s Guide To Dating Queer Women
It’s time to educate yourself.
I’m Not “Gay Enough” For The Lesbians, So Where Do I Fit?
It’s time for us to have a talk, ladies.
I’m Gay And No, That Doesn’t Mean I’m Down For An Open Relationship
It took me a while to figure it out.
My Brief And Failed Attempt At Polyamory
Once a reluctant dater, always a reluctant dater.
What It’s Like Explaining Sexuality And The Gender Of My Partners To My Parents
9 Queer Women Share Their Never-Fail Tinder Opening Message
There is no “hey” from here on out.
For Queer Women, Is There Truth To The U-Hauling Stereotype?
Do we attach more easily, according to science, or is it confirmation bias?
Our Cities Are Destroying Our Love Lives
We are social animals, but we are not meant for this.
Please Don’t Call It ‘Coming Out’
I wasn’t hiding anything.
You’re Ready For Your First Queer Date. Now What?
Lessons from a decade of experience.
How Internalized Biphobia Ruined My First Tinder Date
She deserved better.
Lessons I Learned Hooking Up Abroad in the New Age of HIV
Despite advances against HIV, casual sex while traveling can still be risky. I found out the hard way in Mexico City.
Do You Have Too Many Choices On Dating Apps — Or Is That Not A Thing?
There’s a difference between less likely to settle down and less likely to settle.
3 LGBTQ Women Share What It’s Like To Come Out In Your Mid-20s And Later
Now they're comfortable in their sexual identity and navigating the dating world.
What To Know About Dating Someone Who’s Openly Non-Monogamous
Most people who are dating online are actually already practicing some form of non-monogamy — they just aren’t communicating about it.