Figuring out how Tinder works is pretty easy when you’re a teen or 20-something. But getting past the misconceptions, not to mention the nitty gritty of choosing your profile photo, writing your bio, and sending a strong opening message, is not always easy for those who dated and coupled up before the age of online dating. Unfazed by the challenge, Sam agreed not only to explain Tinder to his older cousin, mother, and sister, but to let them critique the ins and outs of his profile and strategy — and we captured it on video. You’re a brave man, Sam.