Why I’m Never Going Back To Not Making The First Move
It’s time for some empowerment.
When Is The Right Time To Have Sex With Someone New?
Surprise, surprise: It’s complicated.
Extracurricular Activities: A Junior At USC’s First Week On Tinder
I’m no longer afraid of missing a sweaty frat party.
Health & Wellness
How To Tell If You’re Dating A Narcissist
They’re harder to spot than you might think.
A Proper Foursome: Teddy, Blankey, My Date, And Me
It’s a setup no one asked for.
I’ve Got News For You: Your Crush Is Attainable
It’s time to be bold.
College Is Hard And I Don’t Have Time For Your Games
Date me with your eyes wide open.
Calling Women “Needy” Is B.S. Here’s Why
Just knock if off already.
13 Memorable Messages That Sealed The Date Deal
Sometimes saying “hey” actually does work.
The 8 Types Of Relationships You Have In College
You’re not alone on this chaotic journey.
4 Clapbacks For Those Annoying Texts Everyone Hates Receiving
The eye-roll emoji is your BFF.
Tinder Diaries: A Single Guy Invests Recklessly In Almost Everyone
Everyone is different, and that is why dating is hard.
The $wipe: What A 25-Year-Old Single Woman In Savannah Spends On Dating
Two guys, three dates, and one home improvement project.
The Red Flags Most Men Are Happy To Ignore
A cautionary note to men dating and anyone dating men.
Why Rejection Hurts And How To Deal With It
It’s not you, it’s science.
How I Quell Every One Of My First-Date Nerves
Boogers are not welcome.
Swipe Advice: I Asked 10 Tinder Matches for Their Best Opening Line
Don’t Ask Me For A Threesome To Make Your Boyfriend Happy
I’m not here to validate your role as the Cool Girlfriend™.
Health & Wellness
Dating While Depressed Is No Simple Matter
If you’re not taking care of yourself, it’s not fair to either of you.
Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous Could Probably Help Everyone
It’s about forming healthy, happy relationships with yourself and your lovers.
4 Ways NOT To Talk About Your Ex On A First Date
So weird how they were all “crazy!”
Why Emotional Cheating Is The Worst Kind Of Cheating
One of life’s hard questions.
What We Get Wrong About Flings
They don’t always need to have an expiration date.
5 Ways To Charm Your Dates Without Getting Off Your Phone
Who said you need to leave your house to be a pro?
How To Break Up With Someone You Aren’t Actually Dating
Spoiler: Ghosting is not the right move.
9 Women Define What “Dating” Means To Them
There’s no universal definition.
Don’t Take Me To These Places On A First Date. Please And Thank You.
You’ve been warned.
How And Why I First Entered The Online Dating-Sphere
It’s not always so simple.
A Letter To The White Men I Date — Past, Present, And Future
Your commentary and assumptions about my culture are unnecessary and unappreciated.
This Is What It’s Like Dating In Spain
It’s not all sunshine and sangría.
I Went On A Date On Valentine’s Day And It Made Me Happy To Be Single
My apologies to Hallmark’s favorite holiday.
‘Hooking Up’ Is A Mystery And These 10 People Agree
Honestly, I’m so confused.
To The Tinder Date I Ghosted, I’m Sorry
We never should have gone on a second date.
24 Hilarious Responses For When Someone Tries To Slut-Shame You
Not today, Satan!
Tinder Diaries: My Mutual Connections Are Sabotaging My Love Life
Is there such thing as a perfect stranger anymore?
This Is What It’s Like To Date In Thailand
Let me tell you, it’s not easy.
Dating Is Better With Friends, Especially in Tulum
Less nerves + more fun = success.
How I Used Tinder To Help Ease My Social Anxiety
RIP lonely Friday nights.
All The Venmo Requests I’d Send To My Exes If I Could
*Transfers to bank*
I’m Single, Bilingual, And Off To Tulum To Mingle
Join me, won't you?
A Straight Guy’s Guide To Dating Queer Women
It’s time to educate yourself.
How To Spot Red Flags Before You Get In Too Deep
When a person shows you who they are, believe them the first time.
The Most Ridiculous Lies We’ve Maintained To Our Partners Over The Years
I discovered the truth behind my big little lies.
My Brief And Failed Attempt At Polyamory
Once a reluctant dater, always a reluctant dater.
Health & Wellness
How To Make The Most Of A Breakup
It presents more opportunities for reinvention than just a drastic haircut.
Examples Of True Love, As Translated For The Tinder Era
Romance is alive and well.
Ghosting vs The Slow Fade: Which Is Worse?
To ghost or not to ghost, that is the question.
The Rules Of Dating When You Live With Roommates
First one home gets the living room.
What To Do When You Come Across An Ex On Tinder
If there’s any time you need a step-by-step guide, this is it.
5 Ways A Poly Breakup Is Even More Complicated
If your relationship was nonmonogamous, things can get really confusing.
How To Break Up With Someone Like A Mature Adult
It’s not impossible, truly.
8 Things To Know Before Entering A Consensual Nonmonogamous Relationship
With lots of communication, it can be a viable relationship model.
We’re Coining These Fresh Dating Terms
Not all heroes wear capes.
Why The Idea Women Shouldn’t Date Younger Guys Is Bullshit
It’s 2019. Can we get past this already?
15 ‘U Up’ Texts We’d Actually Like To Receive
You can all do better.
What’s It’s Like When You And Your Friends Have Dated The Same Person
Things can get messy, to say the least.
Swipe Advice: I Asked 10 Tinder Matches How To Impress A Date’s Friends
Remembering their names should help.
How To Actually Know If You Like Someone
Ask yourself this simple question.
7 Winter Date Ideas For Masochists
The weather outside is frightful, but you’re into it.
First-Date Nerves As Told By ‘Riverdale’
I’m short of breath just writing this.
The Art Of Dating With Zero Effort
Standing, or rather, sitting ovation.
Here’s What Interracial Dating Is Like In The Trump Era
It’s not all bad.
6 People Share The Pros And Cons List Of Everyone They’re Dating
Decisions are hard.
Count Down To Dating Sunday With These Pickup Lines
*music plays* *it’s the final countdown*
For Queer Women, Is There Truth To The U-Hauling Stereotype?
Do we attach more easily, according to science, or is it confirmation bias?
5 New Relationship Tips You Should Throw Out The Window
I will text anytime I want, thank you very much.
Dear Kadeejah: Do I Even Want To Date An Influencer?
I'm turned off by his shallow friends.
How To Get Ghosted In 12 Days
Turns out, it’s harder than you think.
Please Don’t Call It ‘Coming Out’
I wasn’t hiding anything.
I Brought Up My Exes And Other ‘Taboo’ Topics On My First Dates
Is honesty really the best policy?
You’re Ready For Your First Queer Date. Now What?
Lessons from a decade of experience.
3 Dating Cues We Should Be Taking From Scandinavia
Mutual respect, sexual liberation, and independence? Consider us sold.
Is Your New Relationship Moving Too Fast?
I was deeply concerned that mine was.
Love Languages As Updated for Social Media
Screen time > quality time.
Hear Me Out: I Ghost But I Have My Reasons
I am here to officially say, if you don’t want to talk to somebody, don’t.
Ditching The Bar For My First Dates Was Actually A Clutch Choice
Could you get through a first date without liquid courage?
Dear Kadeejah: I Ghosted A Girl And Now I Want To Take It Back
Stop haunting, it's creepy.
Why I’m A Hard No On Following People I’m Dating
Let’s keep our worlds separate for now, shall we?
How Staying at a Nude Swingers Resort Changed My View Of Sex and Relationships
Who knew spending a week naked, surrounded by strangers and sex, could feel so normal?
This Is Why People Are So Obsessed With Their Dating Zodiacs
To the astrology-is-bullshit people, I get it. But I’ve always been a believer.
The Decoder: Was He Lying When He Said ‘I Love You?’
Lying is the least of his problems.
Food & Drink
The Best Miami Date Restaurants, According To Local Industry Greats
Consider this your go-to handbook.
I Confessed To Being A Cyber Stalker On The First Date
I’m a journalist, so I like to verify someone is who they say they are.
Swipe Advice: I Asked 10 Tinder Matches For Their Best Dating Advice
“Don’t be weird.”
Saving Your Dates’ Numbers Is Overrated
If not adding a contact is wrong, I don’t want to be right.
8 First Date Rules That Have No Place In My Single Life — Or Yours
Peace out, dinosaurs.
We Talked To People With Unusual Fetishes And Kinks About Their Dating And Love Lives
How do you navigate the world of dating, relationships, and love while simultaneously fulfilling your desires?
I Want My Future Fiancé To Wear A Man-gagement Ring
Hear me out.
Tinder Diaries: Which Of These 5 Guys Will Get The Date?
I made plans with multiple guys in the same night. Nothing could go wrong.
Health & Wellness
When And How Should You Disclose Your History Of Mental Illness To A New Partner?
It’s about as nuanced as you would expect.
These 7 Animals Have Some…Questionable Mating Rituals
And you thought your dating life was weird.
This Is Why Full Body Pics Are So Controversial In Online Dating
Is it fair to expect one, or shallow?
This Brief History of Interracial Dating Proves That Love Triumphs All
Nothing's perfect, but we're doing a hell of a lot better than we were in 1664.
Dear Kadeejah: When Do I Have The Exclusivity Talk?
Someone who dodges the question is not worth your time.
Turns Out, No One Is Really Out Of Your League
Dating apps make people more open-minded.
6 People Reveal What It’s Really Like To Date Someone With Opposing Views
It’s hardly the easiest time to ignore your S.O.’s political beliefs.
Here’s What’s Really Behind Your Dating ‘Type’ — And Why You Should Ditch It
You may think you're only into preppy types or redheads, but you'd be wrong.
Health & Wellness
These 6 Single Women Wrote Love Letters To Themselves
Never have I ever met someone so damn cool.
The Decoder: Is He Trying To End It With This Text?
Do Millennials Care About How Much Money Their Date Makes?
Men are still more likely to cover a greater portion of expenses in heterosexual relationships.
The Best First Date Spots In LA Based On Your Zodiac Sign
Don't take a Cancer out clubbing.
Man City Football Superstars Take Over This Guy’s Tinder Date
Do You Have Too Many Choices On Dating Apps — Or Is That Not A Thing?
There’s a difference between less likely to settle down and less likely to settle.
Why You Should Travel Without Your S.O. When You’re In A Relationship
Keeping my phone (and heart) on airplane mode.
7 Perks Of Being Newly Single
Sweet, sweet freedom.
The $wipe: What A 25-Year-Old Single in NYC Spends on Dating
Several kinds of hangovers ensue.
We Had The DTR Talk And I Chose To Stay Single
You say all women want a relationship. I say, yeah right.
Is The Meet-Cute Dead?
Meeting in real life has some advantages, but nothing that apps can’t match.
This Is The Best Thing That’s Ever Happened To Me at 4 a.m.
Fyi, you don't have a curfew anymore.
Style & Beauty
This Is What My Pre-Going Out Ritual Really Looks Like
Do you like to cleanse your face or cleanse bad spirits?
A Single Woman Calls B.S. On Things People Say Are Better With A Partner
A table for one, please.
The Best First Dates To Go On Based On Your Zodiac Sign
Let us at least take this decision off of your plate.
Watch What Happens When JVN And Antoni Take Over Tinder
Pass the tissues, because JVN and Antoni are making us cry laughing... again.
I Demanded Answers From Men Who Had Ghosted Me
I ain't afraid of no ghosts.
I Moved To LA For A Tinder Relationship That Lasted Two Weeks, But I Don’t Regret It — Here’s Why
It was over shortly after his dog chewed through my underwear.
3 LGBTQ Women Share What It’s Like To Come Out In Your Mid-20s And Later
Now they're comfortable in their sexual identity and navigating the dating world.
The Boy Who Taught Me That Bigotry Isn’t Always Forever
Nazi skins were not going to stand in the way of me and my first real boyfriend.
Dear Kadeejah: Should I Dump My Boyfriend Because He’s Terrible In Bed?
It's harder to find a solid partner than a partner who can get rock solid.
Almost Missed Connections: It Took Us 2 Months, A Trip Across The Atlantic, And A Subway Delay Before We Finally Met IRL
7:04 p.m.: My heart is jumping beneath my gigantic winter coat — how have I managed to mess this up again?
What To Know About Dating Someone Who’s Openly Non-Monogamous
Most people who are dating online are actually already practicing some form of non-monogamy — they just aren’t communicating about it.
This Is How Feminists Decide Who Pays For The First Date
Giving new meaning to "it's complicated."
If You Don’t Have These Things Figured Out In Your 20s, You’re Doing It Right
Ideally, I’d like to be that octogenarian lady who’s just found out she’s into naughty cosplay.
This Is The Reason Some Guys Never Want To Meet IRL
It's less about you than you might think.
My Super Strict Dating Standards Were A Huge Mistake — Here’s Why You Should Stop Following Yours
My refusal to date younger guys almost made me miss out on my future husband.
A Brief History of Online Dating
Some super weird stuff happened before Tinder swiped onto the scene.
Why You Should Date More Than One Person At A Time — And Why You Shouldn’t
Your dating history matters.
10 Celebrities Who Have Used Dating Apps
Yep, celebrities use dating apps too — and these 10 stars are proof.
I Messaged Guys On Tinder Using Exclusively ‘Parks And Rec’ Quotes And Documented The Results
You are a beautiful, talented, brilliant, powerful musk ox.
I Went On A Date Every Day For 2 Weeks — Here’s What Happened
Yes, you can get over your ex in two weeks.
Confessions Of An Introvert: How Meeting People Online Taught Me To Date IRL
Couldn’t I find one guy who was allergic to the same kind of fun that I was?
12 Radically Honest Questions To Ask Your Dates
It's not rude to be direct.
7 Real Women On The Best First Date They’ve Ever Been On
Sometimes you end up in Vegas.
I Dated My Next Door Neighbor And Here’s What I Learned
Dating my neighbor was like eating at a fast-food restaurant. Everything was quick and convenient.
Your Perfect NYC Date, According To Your Zodiac Sign
For the ideal night out, look to the stars.